Thursday, May 24, 2018
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Sunday, January 14, 2018
π¨THE RAIN
Dark clouds drifting
Wind howling
The rain falls
My thoughts drift from the comfort of the cats in my apartment
The rain will quench the thirst of many community cats
Diluting the poisons that have been added to the stagnant water
The rain will flush away the kittens hidng in the small drains
The meowing drowns in the swirling water
The cats that fell into the steep monsoon drains
Rush in vain against the raising tide of water
Cats hiding beneath cars
Cats crouching under concrete seats in the void decks
At the mercy of the human traffic
Life is like that
Sweet
Sour
Bitter
What then
Is the mystery of existence?
2006
#IVORYchuMCDS & #EBONYkangMCDS
Thursday, January 11, 2018
Vodka had passed away
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| One of his last photos |
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| Debra wrote, "He did have a good life. 14-15yrs. Spoilt. Haha. I’m just sad lah." |
Wednesday, November 22, 2017
It is time to include animal companions in the genograms
(A letter that was rejected by TODAY and later by the STRAITS TIMES)
"Boy-Boy" is a little chocolate-coloured toy poodle prancing excitedly in a playpen in the living room.
His "mummy" was resting in the bedroom, tired from a terminal illness.
I asked his "daddy" if "Boy-Boy" was let out of the playpen. He nodded and said, "Only when I am home."
He continued, "Some of my friends said that dog's hair was harmful to my wife, so I keep Boy-Boy away from my wife."
I told him that was not true and that the presence of the dog close to his wife was therapeutic. I googled photos of dogs sleeping with patients in hospices on my mobile phone and showed them to the couple.
The wife said, "I miss Boy-Boy so much."
The husband looked relieved with the information.
I recalled a similar situation a few years ago when a small breed dog was locked in a room. The husband of a woman with terminal illness said, "We have so many relatives asking us to give up our dog because they said the dog would harm my wife. My wife is no longer able to decide but I will not give away this dog. He is part of the family. However to appease the relatives, I keep him apart from my wife."
Perhaps it is time to include animal companions in the genograms and appropriate counselling be given to keep the family together when facing pressure from advice such as "they all say that animals are harmful and we should give them away."
**anonymous**
17-11-2017
Singapore
"Boy-Boy" is a little chocolate-coloured toy poodle prancing excitedly in a playpen in the living room.
His "mummy" was resting in the bedroom, tired from a terminal illness.
I asked his "daddy" if "Boy-Boy" was let out of the playpen. He nodded and said, "Only when I am home."
He continued, "Some of my friends said that dog's hair was harmful to my wife, so I keep Boy-Boy away from my wife."
I told him that was not true and that the presence of the dog close to his wife was therapeutic. I googled photos of dogs sleeping with patients in hospices on my mobile phone and showed them to the couple.
The wife said, "I miss Boy-Boy so much."
The husband looked relieved with the information.
I recalled a similar situation a few years ago when a small breed dog was locked in a room. The husband of a woman with terminal illness said, "We have so many relatives asking us to give up our dog because they said the dog would harm my wife. My wife is no longer able to decide but I will not give away this dog. He is part of the family. However to appease the relatives, I keep him apart from my wife."
Perhaps it is time to include animal companions in the genograms and appropriate counselling be given to keep the family together when facing pressure from advice such as "they all say that animals are harmful and we should give them away."
**anonymous**
17-11-2017
Singapore
Saturday, August 26, 2017
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